Lifestyle Desk: For a happy married life, Islam has given responsibilities and duties to both the husband and the wife, which if fulfilled makes the life happy. A few such issues are highlighted in the light of Quran and Hadith.

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Husband's duty: As Islam has ordered the wife to obey her husband, so the husband has been ordered to treat his wife well.

Behave well: Islam has ordered to treat one's wife sweetly even if one does not like it. The Holy Qur'an says, 'Be kind to them, if you dislike them, perhaps you dislike something that Allah has prepared for you.' (Surah Nisa, verse 19)

Seeing the good aspects of the wife: Narrated by Abu Huraira (RA), 'No believing man (husband) will dislike a believing woman (wife) to the extreme. Because one of his habits is undesirable but another habit may be desirable.' (Sahih Muslim)

Trying to be good in the eyes of the wife: Islam has given importance to the opinion of the wife regarding the good or bad of a person. On the authority of Aisha (RA), Rasulullah (SAW) said, 'The best of you is the one who is best to his wife and family.' (Sunan Tirmidhi)

What the wife should do: Islam has given some instructions to the wife to resolve the quarrels, disputes and crises of the married life . For example –

Obedience of Husband in Lawful Actions: Islam advises obedience of husband in lawful and lawful actions and also declares reward for this obedience. On the authority of Umm Salma (R.A.), Rasulullah (S.A.W.) said, 'The wife who dies in such a state that her husband is pleased with her will go to Paradise.' (Sunan Tirmidhi)

Avoiding Immorality: Narrated by Anas (RA), Rasulullah (SAW) said, 'When a woman prays five times a day, observes the fast of Ramadan, protects her modesty, and obeys her husband, she can enter Paradise through any gate she pleases. ' (Musnad Abu Yala)

Hadith scholars say, here it is said to avoid all kinds of immorality and wrongful indulgence by guarding the private parts. Because indulgences in small wrongs lead to big sins later on.

Fulfilling legitimate expectations of the husband: On the authority of Abu Usama (R.A.), Rasulullah (S.A.W.) said, A good wife is the best achievement for a believer after fearing Allah. The characteristic of a wife is that she obeys her husband when he looks at her, she pleases him when he looks at her, she fulfills a vow if he trusts her, and she is benevolent towards herself and his wealth in his absence. is (Sunan Ibn Majah)

Men have more responsibility: Both men and women have responsibilities to make marriage happy and successful. But the responsibility of men is a little more. The responsibility of the husband is greater than that of the wife in creating discord and distance between husband and wife. He will take the initiative to distance himself by giving up his stubbornness and ego. If distance is created due to his mistakes, he will correct himself and try to win the wife's heart. And if the wife is at fault, consider the consequences before inflicting severe punishment, so that the manicured garden does not turn into a desert. Because he is the head of the family and the guardian of his wife.