Lifestyle Desk: Been in a love relationship for a long time. But the relationship seems stuck in one place. Not going forward, not going back. Doubtful about the future of the relationship. So make a decision now. Certain behaviors of your partner/partner will tell you that he/she does not want to marry you.
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1. He avoids talking about the future
Does he feel uncomfortable or avoid you whenever you try to talk to him about the future? Or does he brush it off whenever you bring it up? So be careful now. Maybe something else is going on in his head. This could be a sign that he doesn't want to marry you.
2. He never takes you into his family.
All your blood relations may know about him but you are only known to his circle of friends. It is also a bad sign that he does not take you to his parents or any family member.
3. I'm not ready yet
You may have been dating for a long time. Partner may also be earning well. But still he just says I am not ready for marriage yet. If this is the case, understand that he may never be ready again.
4. He seems to be anti-marriage.
Does his thoughts about marriage seem not nice? Is getting married at the bottom of his list? Or does he consider marriage a suicide mission? Then you have good reason to worry. Such cold thinking will make your future dark.
5. If he is not interested in your future plans,
you might want to write a whole book about himself and what he wants to do in the future. But does he know anything about what's in store for you? Is he at all interested in this matter? Think about it.
6. Your dates are confined to bed
You may have arranged a candlelit dinner at the most romantic restaurant in town but he blew it. As a result, your dating is limited to bed and popcorn and Netflix. Admittedly, this type of dating is the most comfortable. But it's not always right. Bed dating means that the chances of this relationship moving forward are slim to none.
7. He never utters those magic words
you often verbalize your love for him over and over again. But he ignored it as politely as possible. He has set limits on himself to say those magic words to you. If this is the case, be alert now.
8. He wants to live-in first.
He insists you stay together without marriage, repeatedly saying, 'I'll get married, so what's wrong with living together?' If so, be careful. Understand that the partner's intentions are not good. Remember that marriage is not a show or a game that needs to be practiced before finally starting married life.
9. You are not only the partner of his happiness
, but in his sad moments, he doesn't want you by his side? But it is said, "Happy moments can be shared with anyone, but sad moments need someone especially close." Now if you are not someone particularly close to him then you have enough reason to worry.
Source: Times of India