Lifestyle Desk: A relationship is strong and beautiful through good understanding between the two. If the direction of understanding in a relationship is not right, then there is a problem. It is good to know that few words are enough to make or break a relationship.

Just as some words make us happy, some words are enough to break our hearts. Those who are involved in love or marriage, should be more careful while talking. No words or phrases can be said that cause pain to others.

A single word from you can bring the relationship to the brink of collapse. So if you want to prevent erosion, you have to be more focused while talking. Every effort should be made to keep the relationship healthy. This applies to both. And as part of that effort, refrain from speaking. Let's find out, which words should never be said to a partner-

You're so boring: No one wants to hear negative comments about themselves. No matter how boring a man is, he will never want you to comment that he is too boring. Telling him that means hurting him emotionally. So avoid such negative comments. Instead, talk openly about why he's keeping quiet or not being able to open up. There is no substitute for simple solutions.

Why don't you listen to me : This kind of thing can be said to a partner once in a while, but even then you say it in a very pleading tone. But if you want him to listen to you all the time, it is wrong. To say so would be proof of your narrow and tyrannical nature. He doesn't have to listen to everything you say. Learn to accept his opinion and point of view as an independent person. The relationship will be beautiful.

You are very selfish: It is natural for everyone to put their own interests first. So stop calling your partner selfish. If you say such words to him even in a quarrel, it will cause a kind of wound. If he is selfish, stop making concessions for his sake. But don't unnecessarily sour the relationship by calling him selfish.

You have changed a lot: Everything in the world has changed. Nothing stays the same forever. Look at yourself, are you always the same? So don't take it as unusual to change little by little. There is no measuring instrument for love, it can be more or less. If his change doesn't hurt you, accept that change.