Why do men fall in love with other women despite having a beautiful wife at home?
September 23, 20243 Mins Read
Lifestyle Desk: As the news of separation between Kolkata resident Durnibar Saha and his wife Meenakshi spread, many questions are running in the minds of many. How did the couple who tied the knot just a few years ago break up so quickly?

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To have such a beautiful, friend-like wife, did Durnibar really get involved in an alien life so quickly? Is this also believable? In response, many people say that if someone can cheat on a beautiful partner like Shakira and be attracted to others, then what else is there to say!

The reason for the recent split between the popular pop star Shakira and the Spanish football star Gerard Pique is the same. Shakira alleged that PK was attracted to another woman. But why are men attracted to other women despite having a beautiful, attractive partner? Now this question is spinning in the mind of many. The discussion and research on this is not less.

Various studies have been conducted at Indiana University in the United States. According to a sexologist there, the real reason for this behavior is yet to be found. However, they have observed in many cases that men who have been in long-term relationships are more likely to be attracted to new women.

Why do men do this? Having spoken to a number of men and women in their mid-thirties, who have been married for several years and some recently divorced, each has a different take on the matter.

An information technology worker, who did not want to be named, said that after two years of marriage, he had an affair with a colleague. The wife can also know it. But he was involved with a foreigner with whom he spent most of the day. Daily details were also discussed. All in all, he began to depend on that colleague. He also feels sexual attraction at some point.

According to another IT worker, the excitement in married relationships diminishes. When the wife was a girlfriend, it was more often seen outside. He used to dress up. He looked better.

He said, 'At that time I could feel sexual excitement. Now many days, seeing the wife at home does not have that excitement. Rather, seeing other girls on the street makes them more attractive.' In 'The Evolution of Desire', David Bass wrote, sexual desire, arousal is also a matter of genes. Men are genetically more inclined to be attracted to multiple people.

However, a journalist in his mid thirties does not believe this. According to him, it is not a matter to be looked at separately in the case of boys and girls. People of any gender can be attracted to others. Some move towards it, some hold back.

A young man in his twenties, not yet married, said the same thing. He said, girls are also attracted to other boys enough. But boys tend to express it more. So their words become more public.

A school teacher by profession is raising questions about the sexual freedom of women socially. He said, 'Girls can't express their sexual needs even in married relationships. Many people still have the idea that girls should not express their sexuality. As a result, girls may be less likely to express their attraction to another man than men.

This school teacher said that she also liked other men many times. But her husband stayed away, she could not reveal that even to any friend.

But many women like her have seen, her male colleagues openly discuss the appearance, dress, personality of other women. The teacher said, 'They are also married like me. But there is less sexual tension between them.'

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American writer Nancy Henneson said the same thing. He writes, 'Girls, like boys, sometimes desire to engage in sexual intercourse with others. They are also involved in alienation. But boys can be much more open about it. So it seems that boys are more attracted to 'parastri'. In fact, this is not entirely true.' Source - Anandabazar Online.